Marriage and Money: How We Make it Work

Marriage and Money

Still married!

Although our early twenties were spent wasting most of the money we made, we eventually matured enough to realize what we were doing.  In fact, becoming pregnant with our second daughter made us freak out.  All of a sudden, we began to realize that time was slipping away from us.  Getting older meant that that we had to start taking things seriously.  Therefore we decided to take this challenge head on and pay off all of our consumer debt ASAP.  How did we reach this conclusion?  Together.

The truth is that we’ve never argued about money in our entire eight years of marriage.  Don’t believe me?  It’s true!!  People often ask us why we’re always on the same wavelength.  Honestly, I don’t really know.  Maybe it’s because we ultimately want the same things out of life – peace, stability, early retirement, and lots of travel and fun along the way.

So I decided to detail how we make our finances work as a team.  What follows is a boring story about two people getting along.  It’s not exciting, dramatic, or suspenseful.  [Read more...]

Becoming Vegetarian: A Club Thrifty Confessional

Going Vegetarian: A Club Thrifty Confessional

Vegetables…..it’s what’s for dinner.

Disclaimer:  Many people have recently been asking me why we became vegetarians last year.  Therefore, I decided to share my story.  However, please know that I’m not trying to convert any of you.  I also promise to try not to judge you if you continue to eat sweet, defenseless, innocent animals after reading this.

Over the last few years, we started feeling weird whenever we ate meat.  I’m not really sure when or why it started.  It just did.  And at a certain point, I started completely losing my appetite when I actually thought about what I was eating.  So, little by little, we started seriously cutting down our meat consumption.  And by the end of 2012, we were eating meat only once a week.  We thought about going vegetarian before, but I was in love with bacon and pot roast.  Plus, it seemed like such a hassle.

Then, in December I saw some things I wish I could “unsee.”  I completely freaked out after watching a movie on Netflix called Vegucated.  We randomly picked it from the queue and watched it, not really knowing what it would be about (except that it was about vegetables, of course!). [Read more...]

photo by: Ed Yourdon

The Perils of Working From Home

 

The Perils of Working from Home

I’m livin’ the life!

I recently wrote about how I quit my job in order to focus on my various streams of online income.  The change has been quite dramatic, so I thought I would write a post about the new challenges I am facing since deciding to work from home… [Read more...]

photo by: Jorbasa

3 Big Mistakes Couples Make With Money

The following is a guest post from CollegeMom at ConsumerFu.com. If you are interested in guest posting at Club Thrifty, please see our guest posting guidelines.

 

3 Big Mistakes Couples Make With MoneyOne of the biggest mistakes couples make is allowing love to render them financially stupid. We’re so afraid of hurt feelings, we fail to sit down and talk about money. We talk about how many children we want, at what age we want to retire, where we want to travel and all sorts of other hopes and dreams. What we don’t do is use common sense to guide discussions about money.

Will you continue to have separate finances after marriage? How much insurance will you buy? Who pays which bill? Will you have joint savings accounts? Will you contribute equally to your IRAs even if one spouse earns twice as much? How will you handle inheritance – expected or otherwise? [Read more...]

photo by: wtl photography

VIP Club: Best Week Ever Edition

Winning!

Winning!

Good morning, Club Thrifty enthusiasts!  Not only is it Friday, but I have some awesome news to share with each and everyone one of you.  Are you sitting down?  Wait for it……

On Wednesday, we found out that we won the ebay Frugal Blog Award in the family category!  I’m sure you’re all wondering what exactly this means.  And the truth is, so am I.  From what I can tell, I’ve just won a whole lot of bragging rights, fame, and glory for all time.  I’m also the proud owner of this swank little badge to display on my blog until forevah.  Isn’t she beautiful???

 

 

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The 5 Financial Habits that Changed My Life

The 5 Financial Habits that Changed My Life

I’m still a work in progress…..

I don’t try to hide the fact that we used to be pretty sucky with our finances.  Although we never let things get too out of hand, I finally accept the fact that we used to waste most of our income.  We bought stuff.  We went on trips.  If we didn’t have the cash, we would finance anything that we desired.  Even furniture.  And vacuums.  I swear.

We also lived without any sort of budget.  Unfortunately, this meant spending without limits until the next payday came along.  Since we have relatively high incomes, it never seemed like much of a problem.  But, we’re not stupid people.  I think we knew deep down that we weren’t reaching our potential.  We had our heads stuck in the sand and were caught in the typical middle class trap of going to work, buying stuff, then working more to buy more stuff.  Luckily, getting pregnant with our second child finally made us snap.  The new responsibility made us realize that our future was being squandered on outrageous grocery spending, credit card debt repayment, and a plethora of unnecessary purchases.  We knew we had to change.

One of the first steps we made toward financial freedom was to create a zero sum budget.  Our new budget was merely the beginning of  a series of positive changes that we made.  In fact, I’ve come to realize that we made a lot of changes within a short time frame.  In addition to drastically cutting our spending, we gradually changed many of our destructive habits as well.  And as we all know, changing old habits can be a long and painful process.  However, I am convinced that the new habits we adopted completely transformed our financial future.  Here are the 5 financial habits that changed our lives: [Read more...]

photo by: jDevaun