My Plan to Achieve the Ultimate Status Symbol

I see your diamonds and your Lexus, but they don't impress me. Here's how I'm taking steps to achieve the ultimate status symbol... and you can too!

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I see your flashy car, your sparkling ring, and that giant starter castle. I know what all of those status symbols cost, and I’m still not impressed.

It’s not that I don’t appreciate the finer things in life. I actually do. I’ve just never been huge on flaunting wealth or financing expensive stuff. Because, let’s face it; the bulk of people we know don’t actually own their giant house or their $50,000 car – they’ve merely signed up to make payments on them for decades or more!

Why Pursuing Status Symbols is Pointless

The truth is, the vast majority of status symbols are supposed to make you look like you have money, right? It’s the human version of a peacock strutting it’s feathers. All this junk is supposed to make you look rich and, ultimately, more attractive to others.

In my opinion, it’s all bunk. It’s not real. It’s crap. But you’d never know that by watching the Kardashians, reading Cosmopolitan, or driving down the street.

We are bombarded with a constant stream of marketing and ads. Everywhere we turn, we’re told how this product or that item is the key to looking hip, sexy, or rich. Heck, even the clothes we wear are billboards for a products. Marketers are geniuses at turning their products into status symbols, and it’s all designed to make you do one thing – spend more money.

So, while some people prefer to look rich, I’d prefer to actually become rich. I’ll take money in the bank over a Gucci watch or a new speed boat any day.  No, my used Prius doesn’t look flashy and my clothes definitely don’t scream “cool.” But while others will be working until they die to pay off their “precious” toys, I’ll be enjoying the ultimate status symbol – early retirement.

How We’re Preparing for Early Retirement

Anybody can use easy credit to buy stuff that makes them look rich. Just bust out your credit card, run up the charges, and you could be the proud owner of a Birkin bag of your own. But with early retirement, there’s nowhere to hide.

Like it or not, you can’t take out a loan to fund your early retirement dreams. There’s no credit card that provides 50 year’s worth of income so you never have to work again. The only way to get there is by building your net worth now. That’s what we’re doing, and we’re even getting to travel the world along the way. Here’s how:

Conscious Money Management

Conscious money management is the first step to creating a strong financial foundation. Even if your goal isn’t to retire early, managing your money thoughtfully is a great way to fund the things you really want. Conscious money management includes steps like starting a budget, tracking your spending, and reducing your expenses. These tools opened our eyes to how much money we were actually wasting each month, and they honestly changed our lives forever. By managing our money consciously, we’ve become debt-free (besides the mortgage). Now, instead of spending thousands a month on car payments and evenings out, we’ve got more money for things we actually want – like early retirement, college savings, and travel.

Planning Ahead

To make the most of the money you have, you can’t just focus on what’s in front of you. You have to plan ahead, which includes saving for your future. Paying yourself first is a great way to accomplish this. Directly depositing money from your paycheck into a retirement account helps you save that money before you can actually spend it. (This site has a free retirement calculator that can help you check if you’re saving enough.) Once you’re saving a sufficient amount for retirement, start planning ahead in other areas of your life by starting a travel fund or college savings account.

Building Multiple Streams of Income

I see your diamonds and your Lexus, but they don't impress me. Here's how I'm taking steps to achieve the ultimate status symbol... and you can too!Here’s one important piece of the early retirement puzzle that people miss. A typical American family relies on one or two paychecks to fund their entire life. But what happens if that income stream dries up? To get ahead, you need to build multiple streams of income. In fact, it’s said the average millionaire has 7 different income streams! So, instead of pouring money into items that lose value, invest your money in assets that make money instead. For us, that has meant investing in rental properties. These houses provide additional income streams that are passive, plus they are theoretically growing in value. Therefore, we should make money while we own them AND when we sell. That doesn’t mean you should go and buy rentals, but you should look for ways to diversify your income.

Protecting Assets

After working hard to build your assets, the last thing you want is to lose them. That’s why it’s important to make sure you’re protected. This starts by building an emergency fund. Start by setting aside at least $1,000 to handle emergency costs that might arise. Eventually, you’ll want to save at least 3 to 6 month’s worth of expenses to help you navigate even the biggest of problems – like losing a job. (We actually keep about a year’s worth in our eFund.) You should also ensure you are properly covered by insurance. This includes getting a good term life insurance policy, making sure you’ve got healthcare coverage, and considering other insurance products that protect your assets and income.

Final Thoughts

I know early retirement isn’t for everybody. I also know it’s not as sexy or flashy as shelling out cash for that pool in your backyard. But, I honestly think retiring early is the biggest – and BEST – status symbol of all.

So yeah, I’ll admire your bright red convertible as you cruise by. And I’m more than happy to come over to relax in your new, eight-person hot tub. But, while I appreciate the look of your shiny diamond ring, you can keep them for yourself.

While you spend the best years of your life working to pay them off, I’ll be wearing worn-out clothes, driving my used car, and counting down the days until I never work again.

Are you planning to retire early? Why or why not?

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  1. We’re planning to retire early, for sure! I think Mr. Picky Pincher had a harder problem with eliminating status symbols. He was particularly fond of nice cars, and really fought the idea of getting a used car. But once he did the math and realized how silly it is to blow so much money on sports cars, he got on board the Frugal Train. 🙂

  2. Protecting assests is one area of the puzzle that my wife and I are currently working on. We already have good term insurance policies but need to up the amount a bit, just never seem to get around to it:( Life gets in the way until it doesn’t…

    1. Check out Haven Life. I bought an additional 750K term policy for like $27 per month and qualified for Instant Term with no medical exam. It is so easy.

  3. Hmm, I actually do have a very nice diamond ring acquired after 30+ years of marriage, and I do drive a Lexus. Have you been spying on me? LOL. We got the Lexus used from a family member under some very sad circumstances and we paid cash for it. It was 5 years old with only 15K miles and we plan to keep it for as many more years as we can. We also have no mortgage on our home as we paid cash for it as well. No other debt and a nice investment portfolio. I must say that things were not this way our entire life. Both my husband and I grew up fairly poor and through our child rearing years, many time we struggled. But we kept our priorities firmly at the front and worked diligently to attain our goals. It takes will power and determination, but it can be done.

  4. We’d like to retire earlier than the norm and working on it. I believe one of the biggest items you mention no matter what your are pursuing today is building multiple streams of income. Having a plan b is priceless in today’s job market and economy.

  5. The other day I found out that there’s a word for high earners that are financially strapped- HENRYs (High Earners, Not Rich Yet). O_0 That’s crazy sad!

    These people don’t really understand that one day you will need your money! My mom has a lot of friends and sometimes I get to hear stories of utter stupidity! This one friend of my mom’s, she spent $6,000 on a birthday party for her 60th birthday a couple of years ago. I didn’t even know you could spend so much on a birthday, now she has nose cancer, and had to cobble money from friends and family for surgery.

    This friend has nothing in her retirement, no equity on her home, NOTHING! I mean that is scary you guys! My mom said this friend has always been a spender and works as a massage therapist and typically they don’t make a lot of money.

    My mom also has been lifelong friends with friend #2 who comes from a wealthy family and has a trust fund, and she doesn’t spend as much as friend #1 spends even with all her wealth! Friend #2 really manages her money pretty well and even has been generous towards her only child up to a point.

    She sent her only son to college all four years, helped with the down payment of his home and car, but that’s as much as she helped him. After that she told him he was on his own and he’s done well on his own. She enjoys her life and likes to travel so it’s not like she’s depriving herself.

    But, because she’s generally smart with her money that’s why she’s in her early 60’s now and still has her trust fund. Because they’re all friends, Friend #2 got super-mad a couple years ago when Friend #1 spent $6,000 on the birthday party.

    When my mom told me about this, a couple weekends ago it shook me to the core of my soul, and was a life lesson for me that I’ll NEVER FORGET.

  6. Great point about actually becoming rich instead of just trying to appear that way, while swimming in debt. While we aren’t making early retirement our life’s purpose or controlling value, if we keep things up we should retire well before age 50. Tracking and insurance are definitely part of our plan, and we’re considering purchasing a rental property as a different income source.

    1. Smart idea. We really want another rental property but our market is so hot right now. I think we’re waiting it out.

  7. Oh yes…absolutely great point! You can have your fancy car and McMansion but I think early retirement/financial independence is the ultimate mic drop. Nothing else needs to be said…you win. I definitely will be retiring early though not as early as those in their 30s and early 40s. Living in a high cost of living area is a big obstacle. When do you guys plan on retiring?

    1. I think we’ll probably retire around 50, but might work longer if we still enjoy it. Unlike a lot of other people who plan to retire extremely early, we still have young kids. I can’t imagine quitting work until I know their college/weddings etc. are taken care of. Not that I’m going to pay for their weddings, but there’s just so much up in the air. I want to get them to adulthood!

  8. Exactly right most of the people that have these flashy things don’t even own them. They usually take out a loan to buy them. And frankly, anyone with a decent credit score and income can do that. So I agree, not impressed!!

    Early retirement, or even retirement at all since most people do not save for it, really is the ultimate status symbol.

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