Winning Means Being Unafraid to Lose

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Winning Means Being Unafraid to Lose“Winning means being unafraid to lose.”

 

So said Fran Tarkenton, the legendary quarterback who held many records when he retired in 1978 and was elected to both the Pro Football and College Football Halls of Fame. Tarkenton always played as if he were unafraid to lose, scrambling this way and that, extending the play and then throwing deep, taking many risks along the way, and eventually being rewarded with 342 touchdown passes.

 

Similarly, when it comes to your money, “winning” might mean being unafraid to lose. Your greatest possible financial gains could come when you take risks that would make others question it. Even though taking risks involves a lot of instinct and gut feeling, there is a bit of a science to it as well. Here are a few tips on taking educated risks that could lead to great profits:

 

1. Do Your Homework

A risk can be defined as a move that has a high probability of failure, but not every financial move is seen as a risk to every player. That is, what might be a risk to someone else would not be a risk to you if you have done the necessary research to learn that your new investment actually has a high probability of success.

 

That abandoned store on the corner downtown that no one has been able to make profitable over the years? Perhaps you have done your homework on the changing demographics of your town and you know with certainty that your town is primed for a Starbucks franchise. To others, your purchase of the building looks like a huge risk because they have not researched the possibilities for business in that location. To you, however, the probability of Starbucks thriving on that corner is so high that your risk factor is actually low.

 

Many good risks that pay off later were based on sound data, not mysterious hunches or visits by soothsayers.

 

2. Draw up a Budget

Taking a financial risk should not mean saying, “I’m all in for whatever is required. Just tell me!” In very rare instances (you discover oil on your friend’s farm) should you make a move without figuring out what it will ultimately cost. In most cases, you need to draw up a budget and save for a time when you are sure that a risk will pay off.

 

This risky-day saving strategy will position you to strike quickly when the right opportunity arrives. Most financial counselors would tell you to have emergency savings and retirement taken care of before starting a risky-day fund. You can call this new account your risk budget.

 

3. Sleep on It

Even though most risks do involve the gut and strong hunches, they should never be totally driven by emotions. Many propositions can cross your desk and excite you, especially if they are being pitched by a skilled salesperson or a close friend that you trust. You might be ready to sign on the dotted line by 5 p.m., but you probably shouldn’t.

 

Take some time to reflect on the offer, do your own research, then make a more logical decision once the emotions have died down. If the risk still gets you excited days and weeks later, then you should probably move on it. If the risk looks stupid in retrospect, then bag it.

 

4. Free Yourself to Fail

As Tarkenton’s quote indicates, you must allow yourself the freedom to fail. If you have a risk budget, that failure will not devastate you. You need to make sure that your self-image will not be devastated either.

 

You can pick any top business book off the shelf that tells stories of huge successes and you will find that every person involved had failures along the way. Not every idea worked, not every plan unfolded according to prediction, markets and conditions changed that doomed even the wisest moves to failure.

 

Once you are over the fear of failure (and have funds in place to soften your landing), you will be much freer to win in the financial world. So, go ahead: start your own business, buy that low-priced property, invest in that new technology. You will learn something along the way, and you might win big. Risk-taking is part of what makes life worth living, adding a dose of adrenaline to the mundane.

 

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Comments

  1. I like the “slip on it” advice. All too often people (myself included) jump on opportunities that actually end up being something they should have passed on. Sometimes taking a day or two to think about it really helps avoid “bad” opportunities.
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  2. Love the idea about the risk budget fund. It’s a great idea for novice investors too, to set aside some money that you’re prepared to lose that won’t affect your main budget and obligations – money that if invested poorly won’t hurt too badly but if invested wisely could make a big win.

    Thanks for the great post!
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  3. Great points, especially #3! We often do that ourselves as a way to let the emotions die down so we can make a more logical decisions. This often allows us to clear our heads and think more logically.
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  4. Fear is a big killer of change and keeps many people stuck in a bad situation. Even if you “lose” or have a setback, it’s better than not trying,
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  5. Great tips. I made a few emotional decisions that have cost me and now I take money I could afford to lose if it all went bad, invest it, and force myself to not check it more than once a month. The little market bumps on the way would freak me out.
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  6. Thanks for a cool guest post. I believe that the person who is unafraid to make the slightly wrong call and is early will beat the person who verifies they’re making the right decision and is late nearly every time. Great quote, and something that should propel people to have the fortitude to pull the trigger on chasing their dreams.
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  7. I would agree 100% Failing it not something that should be looked down upon. During my early days of trading and investing I failed repeatedly and quite frankly it was because I didn’t do my homework and rushed into situations that I didn’t fully understand.

    As I’m older and definitely more educated I actually take the other side of the coin and view failure as unacceptable. Of course it happens, that’s the nature of investing but I will never accept it. I do not take huge risks, I take risk where my probability for success is almost guaranteed.
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  8. Sleeping on it is always good advice in my opinion. I’ve found in life that people who try to hurry me to make a quick decision to invest in or purchase something are almost always looking out for their best interests more than mine.
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  9. Sometimes you have to “fail” to learn. Some of my best life lessons have come from making “mistakes”. From those mistakes I’ve learned that emotional decision making can be one of my downfalls. Now I try to sleep on it before buying or making important decisions. Good tips.
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  10. #3 rings all too true. Before when I was spending a lot of money, I was just going along with my emotions (oops!). Now I step back, sleep on it and then come back with a better decision.
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  11. I make too many emotional decisions myself because…well I’m emotional. :) But I’ve learned to say the words, “that’s great, I’ll give it some thought” a lot more now. Really helps to give it some time and space before making an important decision.
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  12. I think once folks leave their bubbles, especially in North America and see how much harder the RoWorld has it.. folks will stop being so afraid.
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  13. One of my goals this year is to learn more about investing. I’d really like to get into it, but I’m such a novice when it comes to it. I guess it’s a lot of risk for us because we just don’t have a lot of money to lose.

  14. ‘Do your homework’. That is so true. Far too many decisionsare made with far to little information.
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  15. “Sleep on it” is definitely a great piece of advice. I used to make “gut decisions” but as I get older, I really think about things and look at all of the pros/cons.
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  16. For me, planning is the key to success! When I plan, I examine the alternatives and do my homework. I monitor my progress and make the appropriate changes. I don’t think I am unafraid of failing, but I try to increase the odds of success. It has worked so far.
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  17. I’m definitely not opposed to failure–I’ve learned many, many things from my own mistakes!
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  18. I love #3 and #4! Sleeping on it is so important…sometimes I can be very impulsive and regret it later. #4 is important as sometimes I feel like I don’t take action because I am scared. I just started my blog and I was so scared to even start it. I think moving through fear and turning it into action is so important. Also, as others mentioned learning from your mistakes and constantly assessing your situation.

  19. Risk is a luxury here in America. We have so many opportunities to rebound, it’s nuts! I love the opportunity to take risks, but I’ll admit, I’m a bit of a chicken liver (what does tha even mean?!) when it comes to possible failure. I can’t stand being hated, and don’t like losing, but I’m getting better at it. Great article here!
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  20. FEAR – False Evidence Appearing Real :)
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  21. Homework is a big one for me. I like doing my research and trying to really understand the risk I’m about to take. Usually, I wind up not taking the risk. I’m a more conservatively oriented investor, so this fits my personality.
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  22. I always think sleeping on it is a good idea. So many times I have reconsidered buying something because I stopped and waited. 9 out of 10 times it ends up being the right choice.
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  23. I like the sleeping on it advice. It is always good to think things through in a completely different mind set.

    What I have trouble is the free to fail part. I am very very afraid to fail. I know it is crutch for me. I have to overcome it if I want to reach my full potential. But I do struggle with it almost every day.
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  24. Losing is something that you do not have to be ashamed of. In fact, it is taking a risk that can lead to successes. Yes, there will be failures but these can be overcome and the risk will be worth taking after all.

  25. I agree with the main points of the article and feel that taking calculated risks is vital to financial success. Equally important is saving enough of an emergency safety net to catch you if you fail. Thanks for generating some interesting discussion.
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